On March 22, 2025, the Marry Me informal settlement in Soshanguve, Tshwane, was the site of a tragic attack that claimed five lives, including 37-year-old Philemon Katlego Sesoko. His younger brother, 23-year-old Tshegofatso Sesoko, survived the assault but sustained severe injuries that have left him physically and emotionally scarred.
A Night Turned Tragic
Tshegofatso had visited his brother on March 21, 2025, intending to stay for just one night. However, during the night, the settlement was attacked. Tshegofatso was unconscious when he woke up in the hospital and was informed of the tragic events. He had been accompanying his brother, who was a community safety patroller, but was not actively patrolling himself.
Severe Injuries and Ongoing Recovery
Tshegofatso was discharged from Dr George Mukhari Academic Hospital in August 2025 after receiving treatment for his injuries. His right leg was severely burned, and he lost two front teeth, two fingers on his right hand, and three toes on his right foot. Additionally, his face was crushed by objects, including stones. He continues to recover at home, attending regular hospital check-ups.
Seeking Justice and Support
The traumatic experience has left Tshegofatso in great pain, both physically and emotionally. He expressed his gratitude for surviving the attack but mourns the loss of his brother, who had been a significant support in his life. Tshegofatso is uncertain if he will ever forgive the perpetrators, stating, “Time will tell.”
As a financial management student at Tshwane University of Technology’s Ga-Rankuwa campus, Tshegofatso is eager to return to his studies. He has appealed for assistance to help him resume his education and support his mother, Kedibone Sesoko, who is struggling to find employment. The family is facing financial hardships, and any donations would be appreciated to help them rebuild their lives.
A Mother’s Heartbreak
Kedibone Sesoko, 53, Tshegofatso’s mother, expressed her heartbreak over the tragedy. She nearly lost both her sons in the attack and described the scene she encountered upon arriving at the settlement. Finding her eldest son already dead and her youngest severely injured was a sight she will never forget. Despite the immense pain, she refuses to blame God for the events, emphasizing the importance of faith and resilience.
Call for Justice
Gauteng police have confirmed that cases of murder and attempted murder have been opened in connection with the attack. The community continues to seek justice for the victims and support for the survivors as they navigate the aftermath of this devastating event.
For those wishing to assist Tshegofatso and his family, donations can be made through various community channels. Every contribution, no matter how small, will help them rebuild their lives and honor the memory of those lost in the Marry Me massacre.
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