The tragic funeral of Bongeka Makhathini and her three-year-old son, Okuhle, who were brutally killed by her boyfriend, Mlondi Cele, took place on Saturday in Ilfracombe, South Coast. The heartbreaking event drew mourners, including KwaZulu-Natal Premier Thami Ntuli.
### Plans Cut Short by Tragedy
Khehlo Makhathini, Bongeka’s uncle, shared his plans to surprise her during the festive season. “I wanted to organize a special denim-and-white event for her during the holidays. Bongeka was the kind of person who would do things for others without being asked,” he said, reflecting on her kind nature.
The senseless act of violence has left the family and community devastated. Premier Ntuli expressed concern over the rising cases of gender-based violence (GBV), especially during the festive season. “We must address this violence through campaigns that resonate with men and boys. Alcohol and drug abuse also play a significant role and need to be tackled,” Ntuli emphasized.
### Rising Gender-Based Violence
Ntuli revealed that the provincial government has deployed 173 activists across hotspots in KwaZulu-Natal to combat GBV. He urged communities to make protecting women and children a daily priority.
The harrowing details of the crime shook everyone. Mlondi Cele, 24, was found hanging in an RDP house in Danganya, uMgababa. Bongeka’s body was discovered in the bedroom, while Okuhle’s lifeless body lay nearby. Both had their throats slit.
### Heartbreaking Memories
Khehlo Makhathini recounted his devastation upon learning of his niece’s death. “I hoped someone would tell me it wasn’t true, but when I arrived at the scene, I found her lifeless body. It’s an image I will never forget,” he said.
Reflecting on their close bond, he shared, “Bongeka ensured I was cared for. She prepared my lunches for work and never tired of helping me. Her loss has left an irreplaceable void.”
He condemned the possessive behavior often associated with such crimes. “No one owns another person. Relationships should be based on love and respect, not control,” he urged, calling on men to treat women with dignity.
### Family in Mourning
Bongeka’s younger sister, Nomvula Mkhwanazi, expressed her grief. “My heart is shattered. Bongeka was always there to welcome me home, and Okuhle was so intelligent for his age. I hope they will become our ancestors and guide us.”
Bongeka’s aunt, Silindile Khumalo, highlighted the family’s struggle to come to terms with the tragedy. “December will now always remind us of this painful loss. Bongeka was trustworthy and loved her family deeply. No one deserves such a death.”
### A Call for Change
The family’s grief underscores the urgent need to address GBV in South Africa. With rising cases of violence against women and children, leaders and communities must unite to end this scourge.https://twitter.com/Newzroom405/status/1872990801195876723?s=19
Bongeka and Okuhle’s lives were tragically cut short, leaving a community mourning and calling for justice and change. Their memory serves as a painful reminder of the work that remains to create a safer society for all.