Life’s challenges can be unimaginably difficult, and for DJ and sangoma Tumi Motsoeneng, popularly known as Gogo Skhotheni, and her estranged husband, Monde Shange, those challenges have reached a heartbreaking low. The couple is mourning the tragic loss of their three-year-old son, Monde Junior, who passed away on September 2, 2024, at Busamed Modderfontein Private Hospital.
In a deeply emotional statement shared with ZiMoja, Gogo Skhotheni confirmed the devastating news, expressing the family’s profound sorrow: “It is with profound sadness that the Motsoeneng and Shange families confirm the passing of Monde Jr Shange.” She requested privacy for both families during this painful time, asking for understanding and compassion as they cope with their grief.https://www.instagram.com/p/C_ch3uINp7H/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Monde Junior’s life was fraught with health struggles. Gogo Skhotheni has previously opened up about her son’s ongoing battles. On his second birthday, she shared a heart-wrenching message reflecting their daily reality: “Monde Jr, you’ve been at that hospital bed ever since. You know all the nurses, doctors, and cleaners; we are now planning your second birthday. Are you still there?”
From birth, Monde Jr faced numerous health challenges. Born prematurely after a complicated pregnancy, he struggled to breathe and was immediately rushed to the ICU. Gogo Skhotheni recalled, “Monde Jr was born without the tube that transports food to the stomach, had many surgeries, and used a machine to eat.” Her pain and resilience were evident as she expressed, “God is testing the wrong woman.”https://www.instagram.com/p/C2pQ8zHtDPG/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Throughout it all, Gogo Skhotheni’s love for her son never wavered. She shared her unshakeable faith, saying, “My faith is not shaken even by a snake; they know I would cross the ocean for them.” Her strength highlights the deep bond she shared with Monde Jr, a connection that will forever remain in her heart.
The couple’s relationship has also been tumultuous, marked by on-and-off dynamics and allegations of abuse. Gogo Skhotheni has been candid about their struggles, stating, “A lot has happened. My son has been sick for a long time, but I have given my life to God and will still heal.”
As we reflect on this heartbreaking news, we acknowledge the strength and resilience that Gogo Skhotheni has shown throughout her journey. Losing a child is an unimaginable pain, and our hearts go out to her and Monde Shange during this incredibly difficult time.
Let us honor Monde Junior’s memory by extending love and support to Gogo Skhotheni and her family as they navigate this profound loss. In times like these, compassion and understanding are more important than ever.