Viewers of the hit reality show Uthando Nes’thembu are expressing growing frustration with MaNgwabe, wife number four in Musa Mseleku’s polygamous household. Following recent episodes, fans have taken to social media to share their disappointment in her attitude, with many describing her as constantly angry and unpleasant.
Mbali “MaNgwabe” Ngwabe has always been one of the more vocal and assertive wives on the show. From the early seasons, she has not held back in expressing her discontent with how things operate in the Mseleku home. She has repeatedly clashed with her husband, Musa, and openly opposed his decision to take on a fifth wife, MaKhwela. While some viewers initially admired her independence, the tone has shifted dramatically over the last few seasons.
This week’s episodes seemed to be the tipping point. During a family vacation, viewers noticed MaNgwabe appearing visibly irritated, even wearing only one earring — a detail that viewers joked symbolized her half-hearted participation. A screenshot shared by @JabuMacdonald on X (formerly Twitter) showed MaNgwabe with a scowl on her face, reinforcing the perception that she is disengaged and unhappy.
Social media platforms have since erupted with criticism. Some users feel that her energy brings down the dynamic of the show. “She’s been tired for the past three years,” one viewer wrote, echoing the sentiment of many others. Another user sarcastically remarked that her constant sour expression makes it seem like she just drank vinegar.
Despite her negative portrayal in recent episodes, MaNgwabe has shown moments of joy, particularly on her personal social media, where she posts selfies with a bright and cheerful demeanor. This contrast between her online persona and her television appearance has puzzled some fans, making them question whether her TV attitude is performative or a reflection of deeper issues in the marriage.
MaNgwabe has often threatened to leave the marriage, but eight seasons in, she remains part of the household. This inconsistency has led fans to accuse her of being dramatic. “MaNgwabe said she is leaving this marriage. It has been eight seasons now,” one frustrated viewer commented. Others urged her to either leave for her peace of mind or try to find a more positive approach to her situation.
Adding to the show’s buzz, there were recent rumors that Musa’s daughter, Sne Mseleku, might be pregnant — a claim she has since denied in a video. Fans speculated that these family dynamics might be contributing to the tension in the Mseleku home, though Sne made it clear she isn’t expecting.
As Uthando Nes’thembu continues to air, the spotlight remains firmly on MaNgwabe. Whether she chooses to soften her approach or exit the marriage as she has long hinted, viewers are eagerly watching — and talking. One thing’s certain: MaNgwabe has become one of the most polarizing figures in the show’s history.