Musa Mseleku, a well-known South African polygamist, recently sparked outrage on social media after calling his third wife, Thobile “MaKhumalo” Mseleku, a “failure” during an episode of the reality TV show *Uthando Nes’Thembu*. The controversial comment, aired on May 1, 2025, has garnered widespread criticism from viewers, who took to social media to express their anger and disappointment.
#### The Disparaging Comment on National TV
During a recent diary session on *Uthando Nes’Thembu*, Mseleku made a remark that left many viewers stunned. The polygamist described MaKhumalo as a failure, claiming that she was only receiving public attention and opportunities because she was “Mrs. Mseleku.” The comment was shared online by a user, who highlighted how inappropriate it was for him to belittle his wife in such a public manner.
The comment came shortly after MaKhumalo reportedly removed the Mseleku surname from her Instagram profile, which some fans interpreted as a sign of tension within the marriage. Netizens were quick to call out Mseleku for his harsh words, with many expressing how hurtful and distasteful his comments were.
#### Social Media Reacts to the Insult
Many people on social media were vocal about their disapproval of Mseleku’s comment. A large number of users criticized him for the lack of respect towards his wife. Some expressed that Mseleku’s words were unnecessary, given that MaKhumalo has faced personal challenges, including being unable to bear children. One user, @MissOpinionSA, labeled Mseleku’s words as “vile,” adding that no woman would willingly choose to deal with infertility issues.
Others agreed with @g\_mapaya, who believed that Mseleku was merely being “honest” about the situation, while @Ntetheh\_MaZwide described him as a “horrible man.” Some fans even questioned whether MaKhumalo was treated like a mere commodity by her husband, with @Pule\_Ale commenting, “Was she supposed to be a commodity?”
#### Mseleku’s Fifth Wife Under the Spotlight
In addition to the controversy surrounding his comment about MaKhumalo, Mseleku’s relationship with his fifth wife has also come under scrutiny. While he introduced his fifth wife, MaKhwela, fans have expressed concerns about his lack of public affection towards her compared to his other wives. Viewers have noted that Mseleku rarely posts about MaKhwela, leading many to wonder whether he spends as much time with her as he does with his other wives.
Relationship expert Paulsa Quinsee weighed in on the matter, suggesting that Mseleku must balance his time between all of his wives to maintain healthy relationships. With a busy schedule, Quinsee emphasized the importance of quality time in any relationship, especially in a polygamous marriage.
#### Praise for MaCele’s Support
In a recent Instagram post, Mseleku shared his appreciation for his first wife, MaCele, praising her for the support she has shown him since he introduced his fifth wife. Despite public backlash, Mseleku lauded MaCele for her loyalty, sharing pictures of the two of them along with a message acknowledging her unwavering support. While some fans expressed admiration for MaCele’s graceful demeanor, others criticized the nature of her relationship with Mseleku, suggesting a mother-son dynamic.
#### MaKhumalo’s Proud Moment with Stepdaughter Mpilo
In contrast to the ongoing drama, MaKhumalo recently celebrated a proud moment with her stepdaughter, Mpiloenhle “Mpilo” Mseleku, who landed her first job. MaKhumalo shared an emotional message on social media, expressing her pride in Mpilo’s achievements and thanking her husband for supporting their children. This heartfelt post showed a different side of MaKhumalo, one focused on her family’s success.
#### Conclusion
Musa Mseleku’s recent comments about MaKhumalo have certainly caused a stir, and the backlash on social media demonstrates just how much influence his words have over public opinion. While some fans have defended him, many others have expressed their disappointment and frustration with his treatment of MaKhumalo. As the controversy unfolds, it remains to be seen how Mseleku will address the growing tension within his family and on social media.