South African reality TV star and well-known polygamist Musa Mseleku has once again found himself at the centre of a social media storm after a clip from the new season of *Uthando Nes’thembu* went viral. The show, which recently returned to Mzansi Magic, continues to draw huge audiences, but this time the conversation has shifted from family dynamics to a controversial statement about Mseleku’s fifth wife, Samke Khwela.
The clip, shared online by a social media user earlier this week, appears to show Mseleku explaining why he married Samke. In the video, he suggests that her role in the marriage is primarily to bear children and help grow the family. He further hints that this is the main reason she joined the already well-known polygamous household. While some viewers were not entirely surprised by the comment, many others felt uncomfortable and disappointed by the way Samke was described.
As soon as the video started circulating, social media platforms were flooded with reactions. A large number of viewers felt that Mseleku’s words reduced Samke to nothing more than a “baby-making machine,” rather than acknowledging her as a partner with her own identity, dreams, and emotions. Some users said the clip was painful to watch, especially considering that Samke recently gave birth and is still adjusting to life as a new mother.
Others, however, argued that Samke knew exactly what she was signing up for when she chose to become part of a polygamous marriage that has been publicly documented for years. According to this group, the expectations and pressures of the Mseleku household have always been clear, and the show itself has repeatedly highlighted Mseleku’s strong desire to grow his family. From this perspective, they believe the criticism, while emotional, may be overlooking the reality of the situation Samke willingly entered.
Still, the dominant tone online has been one of concern and sympathy for Samke. Many viewers pointed out that love, respect, and emotional support should be just as important as having children, especially in a family already dealing with complex relationships and tensions between wives. Some fans also referenced past seasons of the show, noting that warnings were often given to new wives about the challenges of joining the Mseleku family.
The debate has once again highlighted why *Uthando Nes’thembu* remains one of the most talked-about reality shows in the country. It doesn’t just entertain—it sparks real conversations about marriage, culture, gender roles, and expectations in modern South Africa. While Mseleku has always been open about his traditional views and his desire for a big family, this latest moment has shown just how divided public opinion can be.
For now, Samke remains a central figure in the discussion, with many viewers hoping she is supported and valued beyond the role of motherhood. As the season continues, fans will no doubt keep watching closely, not only for the drama, but for signs of how these relationships evolve behind the cameras. One thing is certain: Musa Mseleku and his family will continue to dominate conversations both on and off the screen.
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