The latest season of the popular reality show Uthando Nes’thembu has ignited controversy as viewers weigh in on the significant age gap between Musa Mseleku and his new, fifth wife, Samke “MaKhwela” Mseleku. Mseleku, a well-known South African polygamist and television personality, recently turned 50, while MaKhwela is in her 20s. This revelation has raised eyebrows, with many fans expressing discomfort on social media.
The buzz began after a clip from Uthando Nes’thembu Season 8 went viral. In the video, viewers saw interactions between the couple that led to strong reactions online. Some fans described their dynamic as resembling that of a father and daughter, leading to concerns about the appropriateness of the relationship. One user commented, “I’m sorry, but this is wrong on so many levels,” echoing the sentiments of many others who found the relationship uncomfortable to watch.
Social media platforms were flooded with cringing reactions. Users voiced disbelief and concern, with some suggesting that the relationship felt transactional. Comments ranged from “It’s all about the bag” to “I just cringed,” indicating how unsettled many were by the pairing.
Adding fuel to the fire, Mseleku admitted that he once attended school with MaKhwela’s mother—a revelation that intensified the backlash and sparked further debate. Many felt that such a connection crossed generational boundaries, making the relationship even more controversial.
Despite the criticism, MaKhwela has defended her marriage. In a statement made on the show, she insisted that age is not an issue in her relationship with Mseleku. “I am in my 20s, and I don’t think age is an issue when it comes to my relationship with Mthombeni. I also don’t think people should make it an issue,” she said, firmly dismissing public concern.
This is not the first time Uthando Nes’thembu has stirred public debate. The show, which follows the lives of Mseleku and his multiple wives, regularly sparks conversations around polygamy, gender roles, and now, age gaps in relationships. While some fans admire Mseleku for his transparency and family values, others question the dynamics and ethics of his lifestyle choices.
In other related news, Mseleku’s son, Mpumelelo Mseleku, is currently under police investigation following a fatal shooting during a home invasion. The incident, which occurred in February 2025 at their family home in KwaZulu-Natal, has been labeled as a potential murder case. This incident adds more complexity and media attention to the already high-profile Mseleku family.
As Season 8 of Uthando Nes’thembu continues, viewers remain divided. While some respect MaKhwela’s agency in defending her relationship, others cannot overlook the age disparity and power dynamics at play. Whether viewed as love or controversy, the union between Musa Mseleku and MaKhwela has certainly captivated public attention.