Reality TV star Siyacela Dlamuka found himself trending for all the wrong reasons after an awkward and very public rejection by social media influencer and musician Naledi Aphiwe. The incident, which played out in the comments section of one of Naledi’s posts, has sparked a wave of online discussion and sympathy for Siyacela’s wife, Thando Dlamuka.
It all started when Siyacela commented on a post by Naledi Aphiwe — a young rising star known for her powerful vocals and growing online following. His comment, which many perceived as flirtatious or inappropriate considering his married status, quickly caught the attention of fans. However, what truly set tongues wagging was Naledi’s firm and clear rejection of his advances right there in the public comment thread.
Social media users wasted no time in reacting. Screenshots of the exchange circulated rapidly, and people expressed shock, amusement, and concern — not so much for Siyacela, but for his wife, Thando. One user summed up the public sentiment perfectly by writing: “Imagine your husband embarrassing you in front of other girls. I saw his comment, but watching him get rejected like that would completely destroy me if I were his wife. Naledi, we feel for you. Thando, please stay strong.”
Siyacela, who rose to fame through the reality show Isencane Lengane, has previously been the subject of public scrutiny due to his controversial behavior in his marriage. Viewers have often criticized how he treats Thando, and this latest incident seems to have only added fuel to the fire. Many online users are now questioning his loyalty and maturity, with some even calling the interaction with Naledi “disrespectful” and “embarrassing for his whole household.”
Thando has not publicly commented on the situation, but supporters flooded her name across social media with words of encouragement. Many expressed concern for her emotional well-being, with some urging her to focus on her future and education — which she’s been pursuing despite the challenges in her marriage.
As for Naledi Aphiwe, her response to Siyacela’s comment was applauded for its grace and firmness. She managed to set a boundary without causing drama, and many commended her for not entertaining Siyacela’s approach. Her rejection of his advances has only boosted her popularity, with fans praising her maturity and class.
This incident once again highlights the pitfalls of mixing public figures, private relationships, and social media. It also opens up a wider conversation about respect within marriage and how public embarrassment can reflect deeper issues behind closed doors.
Whether Siyacela will address the backlash remains to be seen, but the message from the public is loud and clear: actions have consequences — especially when the whole internet is watching.