**”I am possibly 80%-90% polygamous and I am pansexual,” says Somizi Mhlongo**
South African media personality Somizi Mhlongo has shared insights into his current approach to relationships and self-discovery. Speaking to *TshisaLIVE*, Somizi reflected on his journey since his divorce from Mohale Motaung, revealing that he hasn’t found love but is enjoying exploring different aspects of his identity and relationships.
### Exploring Without Commitment
Somizi admitted that he is not actively seeking love but is instead embracing life and new experiences. “I haven’t found love again. I am just mingling to mingle. I’m just having fun. There’s no love. I am in relationships,” he said.
He elaborated on how his perspective on relationships has evolved with age. “With age, you realize certain things; you discover yourself. I’ve realized I am possibly 80%-90% polygamous, and I am pansexual. So, I’m exploring. I am just living my life. I discovered that later in my life, and I am enjoying it. I am not committed to anyone, and I don’t want anyone to commit to me.”
Somizi emphasized his belief in individual freedom within relationships. “I’ve reached a stage in my life where I believe no one should own or control anyone. People must do what they want to do, as long as it’s in agreement with the partnership.”
### Love for Weddings Over Marriage
Somizi revealed his appreciation for weddings while acknowledging that marriage is still on his radar. “Marriage is on the cards. I’ll definitely get married. I love the concept of marriage. To be honest, I’m more in love with the wedding than the marriage, but I understand the marriage part.”
When it comes to relationships, honesty is paramount for Somizi. He expressed his preference for what he calls an “honest relationship” rather than an open one.
“An open relationship, to me, means you can date whoever you want to date whenever you want. An honest relationship means we have a conversation before anything happens, and we have to be in agreement. An honest relationship will be one where I can wake up feeling differently about you and be open and honest about it.”
### A Life of Self-Discovery
Somizi’s candid revelations highlight his commitment to self-discovery and embracing his identity. His reflections underscore his evolving understanding of love, relationships, and personal freedom.
As he continues to explore his life and relationships, Somizi remains a vocal advocate for living authentically and embracing one’s truth, setting an example for many who follow his journey.
This honest and open dialogue about relationships and self-discovery sheds light on a journey of growth and acceptance, reminding us of the importance of living in alignment with our true selves.