South African reality TV personality, Themba Khoza, has finally addressed the swirling controversy surrounding his personal life and the viral claims made by Sponono’s nephew. The revelations, which sparked heated conversations across social media platforms, have cast a spotlight on Khoza’s private affairs, particularly his relationship with the mother of his children, Sponono.
In a candid admission, Khoza confirmed that the statements made in the now widely circulated video are true. He openly acknowledged that he did indeed lobola Sponono and also paid damages for their children, which in many cultural contexts signifies recognition of paternal responsibility and a form of respect towards the maternal family. His admission has further fueled the ongoing debates about his past actions and his current choices.
Khoza, who appeared on the popular reality TV series Married at First Sight, went on to clarify how his relationship dynamics shifted during the filming of the show. According to him, just two weeks into production, he came to the realization that he was content with where he was in life. This prompted him to make a difficult but, in his view, necessary decision: to set boundaries with Sponono, the mother of his children, and make it clear that he was now married to another woman.
“I realized I needed to be firm about my situation. I couldn’t live in two worlds anymore. I had to establish boundaries and be honest with Sponono that my life has taken a different direction,” Khoza explained in his statement.
This decision, however, has not come without complications. Reports circulating online allege that Khoza first met Sponono when she was just 15 years old, while he was already 21. If true, this revelation has added a deeply troubling dimension to the saga, prompting serious ethical and legal questions. Many critics on social media have expressed outrage over the age gap and the circumstances under which their relationship began, with some demanding accountability and further investigation.
Furthermore, it has been reported that Sponono is financially dependent on Khoza, a situation that adds another layer of complexity to their relationship. Observers argue that this dependency could make it difficult for her to fully detach from Khoza despite his recent decision to establish boundaries. Supporters of Sponono have raised concerns about her well-being and the challenges she may face in rebuilding her independence, particularly if Khoza’s financial support becomes limited.
For Khoza, the unfolding situation has placed him in the middle of a storm of public scrutiny. While he has chosen to be transparent about his past with Sponono, many feel that his explanation falls short of addressing the more serious allegations regarding how their relationship began.
The controversy underscores broader conversations about relationships, cultural traditions such as lobola, and the blurred lines between personal responsibility and public accountability—especially when reality TV stars’ private lives spill into the public domain.
As of now, Khoza maintains that he has moved on and is committed to his new marriage. However, the questions surrounding his past with Sponono and her reported dependence on him continue to linger, leaving the public eager for more clarity and answers.
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