Thando Dlamuka, star of the popular reality TV show Isencane Lengane, has left South Africans both shocked and concerned after posing a question that many found deeply unsettling. Instead of addressing growing fears about her well-being and allegations of abuse by her husband, Siyacela Dlamuka, Thando unexpectedly asked the public if they would support her financially should their show be canceled by Moja Love.
This startling question came during a time when fans and viewers were expressing serious concern about Thando’s safety and emotional state. Recent episodes have depicted what many interpret as emotionally manipulative and possibly abusive behavior from Siyacela. Viewers have witnessed heated arguments, verbal mistreatment, and Thando’s visible distress, prompting a wave of concern across social media platforms.
Instead of responding directly to these concerns, Thando turned the conversation in a completely different direction. “Will you guys support us financially if Moja Love cancels our show Isencane Lengane?” she asked. The question caught many off guard, as it seemed to divert attention from the core issue — her personal safety and well-being.
Reactions poured in quickly from fans who felt that Thando may not fully realize the gravity of her situation, or perhaps is choosing to prioritize the financial stability the show provides. Many pointed out that the show may be enabling toxic behavior by continuing to film and broadcast their troubled relationship.
Social media users were quick to share their disappointment, with one user tweeting, “We’re worried about you, girl, and you’re asking about money?” Others questioned whether Thando feels trapped in the relationship for financial reasons, and if so, what could be done to support her beyond television ratings and sponsorships.
Some fans did express understanding of her predicament, acknowledging the harsh economic reality many South Africans face. The show may represent a significant — and possibly the only — source of income for Thando and Siyacela. In this light, her question could be seen as a cry for help rather than a disregard for her own safety.
Meanwhile, critics of the show have called on Moja Love to intervene and reassess the ethical implications of continuing to film a relationship that appears increasingly volatile and damaging. Activists and gender-based violence organizations have also weighed in, urging the network to prioritize the mental health and safety of those involved over entertainment value.
As the controversy continues to unfold, many are left asking whether Isencane Lengane is helping or harming its stars. Thando’s surprising question may have been rooted in fear, financial uncertainty, or emotional confusion — but what remains clear is that her well-being should come first.
Mzansi continues to hope that Thando finds the strength and support she needs, whether on-screen or off. The spotlight may have given her a platform, but it’s the people watching who can help amplify the call for real change.