Gqom artist Tipcee, born Thobeka Ndaba, has been struck by a heartbreaking tragedy just as she was beginning to put her life back on track. The popular musician, known for her energetic performances and hit tracks, has lost her older brother, Thulani “Kala” Shabalala, at the age of 44. The devastating news has left Tipcee shattered as she tries to come to terms with the sudden loss of someone who was not just her brother but also one of her closest friends.
In a recent interview, Tipcee shared the heartbreaking news, expressing the deep sense of loss she feels. “I’ve lost a part of my life,” she said, her voice heavy with grief. Thulani, who passed away on Wednesday morning, August 21st, had been a constant presence in Tipcee’s life, offering her unwavering support both personally and professionally. The bond they shared was undeniable, with Thulani often accompanying his sister to gigs and studio sessions. His presence was so integral to Tipcee’s life that he was even known and respected at Afrotainment, the record label that Tipcee is associated with.
Thulani’s death was sudden and unexpected. Tipcee revealed that he suffered from asthma, which ultimately claimed his life in the early hours of that Wednesday morning. “I’m not comfortable sharing most of the details, but he suffered from asthma, and we lost him around 1 a.m.,” Tipcee explained, struggling to hold back her emotions. “We lost him just like that.” The pain in her words was palpable, as she recounted how close they were, always by each other’s side, whether at home or out in the world. “He used to accompany me to gigs and the studio,” she said, reflecting on the deep bond they shared.
Thulani was not just a supportive brother but also someone who deeply respected his sister, despite the age difference between them. Tipcee fondly recalled how Thulani would sometimes drive her when she was too tired, always looking out for her well-being. “As old as he was to me, he respected me so much. He would sometimes drive me when I was tired,” she shared. This mutual respect and love made their relationship even more special, making the loss all the more difficult for Tipcee to bear. “I’m so sad and devastated. I can’t even eat,” she admitted, her voice breaking with sorrow.
Tipcee had recently made the decision to return to the music studio after taking a break to deal with personal issues. She had been optimistic about getting back to work and creating new music, but this tragedy has forced her to put everything on hold once again. “I can’t do anything. I’m feeling pain,” she said, explaining that she has decided to suspend all her studio sessions and recording until she feels ready to face the world again. The loss has been so overwhelming that Tipcee is uncertain when she will be able to return to her music career.
While Tipcee is surrounded by supportive friends and family who have been offering comfort during this difficult time, she acknowledges that the pain is too much to bear. “At least, maybe, I’ll feel much better after the funeral, although I don’t think this pain will fade away anytime soon,” she said, reflecting on the depth of her grief. “It’s too much and unbearable.”
Tipcee’s fans and the South African music community are mourning alongside her, offering their condolences and support as she navigates this painful chapter of her life. The loss of Thulani has left an indelible mark on Tipcee’s heart, and she knows that life will never be the same without him by her side.