Reality TV star Mpumelelo Mseleku, known for his role in Izingane Zes’thembu, has found himself at the centre of controversy after officially paying lobola for his new girlfriend, 21-year-old Amahle Biyela. The revelation aired in a recent episode of the show, catching both viewers and some of his close relationships off guard — especially his long-term girlfriend and mother of his child, Tirelo.
The lobola payment has sparked emotional tension in Mpumelelo’s complex love life. What shocked fans and Tirelo alike was that she only learned about the traditional marriage negotiations after they had taken place. During the episode, Mpumelelo admitted he hadn’t had the chance to tell her, though it had been his intention. Tirelo, visibly disappointed, openly questioned whether she could continue being part of a polygamous setup under such conditions.
Amahle Biyela, a final-year student, was introduced earlier in the season when Mpumelelo brought her to meet his brother, Lwandle. She described Mpumelelo as “funny, loving, and kind” and has since made frequent appearances on his social media platforms, indicating her growing role in his life. Their relationship appears to be moving quickly, culminating in the lobola negotiations that have now added fuel to an already delicate situation.
This isn’t Mpumelelo’s first controversial relationship decision. In a previous season, he stirred public debate by stating that neither Tirelo nor his other ex-girlfriend, Vuyokazi, would be chosen as his first wife — declaring instead that he wished for his first wife to be a virgin. This remark drew sharp criticism from viewers, especially considering that Vuyokazi shares two children with him.
Vuyokazi parted ways with Mpumelelo in 2024 after a five-year relationship. She opened up to Batswadi Magazine about the emotional difficulty of leaving, but also the peace it brought her. “Leaving the father of your children is never easy,” she said. “But it was necessary. I was confused for so long. The person leading the relationship didn’t know what he was doing.”
Vuyokazi highlighted her reasons for walking away, citing emotional neglect and concern for her personal health. She also expressed the need to protect not just herself, but also other women involved in the entanglement. “Now, I don’t have to feel unloved or worry that someone else is getting more attention,” she said.
The recent events have reignited broader discussions around polygamy, communication in relationships, and the emotional toll such arrangements can have — especially when honesty and respect are compromised.
As Mpumelelo continues to navigate his polygamous aspirations on national television, viewers remain divided: some see him as a man boldly living his truth, while others view his actions as careless and inconsiderate to the women in his life. Either way, his personal life continues to unfold under the public spotlight, sparking important conversations around love, culture, and responsibility.